Monday 17 September 2012

Summer Holidays and Back to School

It's been a very long time since my last post. So here is a quick catch up.
During the summer holidays S's dinosaur knowledge has grown rapidly. She has become a walking dinosaur encyclopedia. She can name all the dinosaurs everyone knows, you know the ones T-rex, Triceratops, Stegosaurus, Velociraptor...etc etc but she can also tell you the difference between a T-rex and an Allosaurus, what Triceratops' name means, what a Stegasaurus' plates are for and she'll tell you all about how a velociraptor has feathers. She can also name many more complex dinosaurs and often corrects me on my pronunciation. Words like Pachycephalosaurus and Euoplocephalus are often heard and other new names are added daily. I can just about keep up with her as I know where she  is learning from and can go there to find spellings to pop into google when she wants to know something. What I cannot do now is keep up with all the little facts linked to all the dinosaurs like, just for example, how many toes a triceratops has!

So where has all this come from?
Well you may have seen my blog back in July (All Wrapped up in Dinosaurs). S got up on her birthday and wearing her dinosaur nightie (which is actually a size 14 women's top her Aunt picked up at a car boot) she started unwrapping all those presents. She unwrapped all the dinosaur wrap first and was so happy with everything she got. She was bouncing around and smiling away. We then spent a day at Gulliver's Dinosaur and Farm Park. The weather was beautiful and we ALL had an amazing day. There is so much to see and do there and  for a dino lover like S (and secretly me) it was heaven. It was a so lovely to give her such a perfect birthday. She didn't get why all the other kids were having a party and not her but I know that this day out was definitely best for her (confirmed by her going to two parties in the holiday that she found very hard).
Throughout the rest of the holiday she spent hours playing her dinosaur game on the leapster and going through her dinosaur book finding the dinosaurs she has learnt about on there, asking me questions and watching dinosaur train. All learning at her own pace which seemed to suddenly snow ball.

I had before wondered if dinosaurs was just a 'thing' like all kids have but the turning point for me was at 7.30am on 16th September (just a week after her birthday).S came into my bedroom and said 'Look mummy at this funny dinosaur.' she was flicking through her new dinosaur book, before I even had a chance to respond she started talking again 'oh look a paleontologist..oh and triceratops bones...where is the other triceratops? Ah there he is. Anyway I was looking for Oviraptor.' I had just woken up, had no idea what an Oviraptor was and was a little baffled but took the opportunity to fill the silence and say good morning. For a moment I didn't think I would get a response but she did finally say 'Good morning' without looking up from her book and a split second after 'here is the Oviraptor, he has a short beak and a bendy claw like Troodon and Velociraptor but he has little wings instead of arms.' She waffled non stop for the next 5 minutes and then started the same lecture for her dad and her little sister. 30 minutes later she was still flicking through the book getting excited and reeling off facts. Maybe just maybe this is one of these 'special interests' I have read about not just a childhood fad.

During the holidays we also visited the Natural history museum in London. Which was a very successful trip thanks to the help of two great friends (you know who you are!), lots of prep, ear defenders and plenty of distractions/ comforters. The museum was great and we are going to go back. The dinosaur display was a little difficult as it was so busy. We had to stand in a line that shuffled very slowly past two skeletons up some stairs and over a suspended walkway. Luckily there was plenty to look at and we managed to get across with her shoving through to see a display only once and narrowly missing a woman's face excitedly pointing at another. The moving very lifelike t-rex at the end was worth having to carry an excited 5 year old and once past that she could run around and enjoy the displays at her pace, which was pretty fast. She talked non stop all the way back so she definitely enjoyed it.

Now S is back at school and after 1 week I was beginning to panic. On day 2 of year 1 the fights to get her into the classroom began. After fighting this battle for 5 days trying all the old tactics I was starting to worry, that day I decided to pick S up with a dinosaur to keep her calmer on the way home. Bam it hit me. Bribery...or motivation is a better way to put it. That day we made a deal, S goes into school no fighting, no running away, no refusing to take her bags and then Mummy brings a toy to pick her up. We have only been doing this for 3 days and so far it has worked. I know it will at some point stop working as most things seem to with S, then we will move on find something else that works. Until then I'm going to keep at it and hope it lasts a while and enjoy hearing all about dinosaurs in the morning, evenings and all weekend.